Zaim - Biting and Bitten

Few months back, Zaim pernah kene gigit with one of the toddler kat nursery. Teruk jugak lah, I can see cop gigi penuh kat lengan dia... Lebam biru hijau purple merah sume ade... Pity lil Zaim... he was too small to protect himself at that time... The teachers keep say sorry, and I said, it's okay, maybe Zaim did something that make the lil girl pissed off. Actually, you cant always protect your baby... and your baby is not always right... and accident do happen right? I don't blame the kid who bite Zaim as it is quite normal for children to bite, due to teething and there is a lot other reason reason if you read article about biting. So for me, I just told the teacher, maybe to put extra attention to this girl as she might bite other kids too - because she's new there... She does not have any friends yet and she think she surrounded by strangers...

And last 2 weeks, one teacher told me, Zaim bite his best friend, Danish! Ahhh.. poor lil boy, apela yang korang rebut ni sampai Zaim gigit. Selalu geng komplot dua orang ni... And this new teacher not so friendly to me. She told me as if I need to teach my son not to bite others. I was so surprised and asked the teacher, since when Zaim pandai bite orang kan? I never see he is biting before, and I know he learn it at nursery la kan... and Zaim pun tengah nak tumbuh gigi, so maybe these are the reason Zaim bite his friend. Eventho I am not satisfied with the teacher's explanation, I just iyekan jelah...

Last week, I had a chance to talk to one of the teacher who actually, taking care of Zaim and those toddlers same age with him. I asked her, did Zaim bite Danish that day? Why? She said, Zaim did bite Danish but she was not around - for 2 days. Hmmm dah agak dah. Kalo this teacher around, memang sume budak2 terjaga. Meaning the new teacher la tak tengok betul2 time budak2 tu main. Kalo berebut or gaduh tak dileraikan. No wonder they bite to win betul tak? The teacher said, actually, not only Zaim. All of the kids, even Zaim dulu pernah kene sekali. It just that diorg ni kene selalu di perhatikan. I agree with her explanation. Now it sound fair. Not like the new teacher tu, macam nak blame Zaim pulak. Maybe the principle blame her kot, so dia blame Zaim balik. Whatever it is, my point is, it is not the kid to blame. It is the person who responsible to take care of them. They just a kids, what do they know except to play and explore their own world kan?

*Zaim bite my brother last night, because my bro kacau dia... nak amik susu dia... Then my mom said, "Hmmm tu ikut mommy dia la tu..." What??? I also bite??? I am such a good girl... Do you believe I bite people??? Ye ke??? Ke mak silap orang ni? Babah pulak tak abis2 sakat Mommy skg... Mommy duk bising2 pasal bite, rupenye Mommy sendiri bite... hahahah...