- Day 1 - 20 June 2009
On the way back to home from agent office, Bibik dah mule bertegur-tegur dgn Zaim. Zaim memula refuse... Nanak nanak... Bibik naneee... isk isk isk sian Bibik tu... I don't really push him to accept Bibik... I just let them to accept each other by themselves. After few trial bermain peekaboo... Zaim mengalah jugak... Terkekek-kekek jugak dia ketawa bile Bibik mengagah dia... ;) Then sampai kat Melawati, I stop at one restaurant untuk beli bubur Zaim, sementara tunggu dalam kete, I let him watch Thomas from Ipod Babah... Bile habis clip video tu, Zaim will pass the Ipod to me, so I can repeat the song again and again... And kali ke 4 tu, bile Mommy mintak Ipod tu from him, he said, No... Bibik on... Hah! Dah geng ngan Bibik! ;) Itu jelah first day lesson untuk Zaim and Bibik... After that, Bibik di brief oleh my mom pasal cleaning and how to manage the house.
- Day 2 - 21 June 2009
Since hari ni adelah Sunday, maka agak susah jugak nak mule train Zaim to get along with Bibik sebab ramai orang kat rumah... So I still handle Zaim as usual, and I ask Bibik to watch me on how I handle Zaim... The rest, Bibik just help my mom on cleaning part... Then petang tu, my mom ajak Bibik pergi rumah my eldest sis kat Keramat... And to my suprise, Zaim nak ikut! Hoh! Dia mane nak naik kete kalo tade Mommy or Babah... Mommy ingat 2 minutes mesti Nenny patah balik hantar as usual la, but sampai 45 minutes la jugak baru dia bising carik kami... Kagum jugak bile Bibik bleh pujuk dia ikut... Even my sis pun tak berjaya nak ajak dia naik kete gi mane-mane kalo both of us tak ikut.
Oh hari ni ialah Father's Day also Suhaimi's birthday (my new biras)... So we have a dinner at Secret Recipe... Bibik join sekali untuk kenal with my family-in-law. Zaim dah mule nak accept Bibik bile Bibik nak dukung dia walopun memula tu dia refuse bile Bibik offer nak dukung... Tapi Bibik tak give up... Zaim finally bleh accept Bibik that nite... Bibik berjaya lah cool down kan Zaim bile dia dah start mengantuk and cranky kat Secret Recipe tu...
- Day 3 - 22 June 2009
Early morning, bile Zaim bangun, he so moody le pulak... Selalu dia yang bising nak mandi, today tanak mandi... Jenuh Mommy pujuk dia tanak... Asik main car je... Then finally berjaya jugak pujuk dia bukak baju and masuk bilik air... Tapi bile nampak je Bibik, dia bleh pulak suh Bibik kua.. Bibik naneee... Memi nini... Memi lak.. Memi lak.. He ask me to join him and suh tutup pintu.. Hoho punye lah tanak ngan Bibik.. But, I had decided, today Bibik kene jugak start handle Zaim... Lagipun kesian tengok Bibik dah all out nak geng ngan Zaim, and Zaim refuse sebab I am around.. Mestilah dia tanak ngan orang lain... So Mommy pun dengan berat hati terus tinggal Zaim dalam bilik air and suh Bibik masuk and close the door supaya dia taleh lari... Huhu sayu hati okeh bile dia jerit, Abam nak Memi.. Memi mandi.. Nak Memi...Nanak Bibik.. Bibik uwa... Bibik masih lagi sabar melayan sampai lah siap mandi... Then bile dah siap, Mommy pun sergah Zaim, buat funny face kat dia, terus Zaim ketawa balik... and mood dia pun okeh jugak... Berjaya Bibik pakai kan baju kat dia... ;)
Then I have to work kan... Walopun from home pun, still kene keje kan... So meanwhile Bibik doing good job, Zaim sgt leka main ngan dia, bleh kate Mommy bleh focus la buat keje kat hall tu sambil sambil monitor mereka.. Yang paling kagum kan... Bibik tu cepat btul pick up English words... Cartoon Zaim, and those words yang kua dari mulut Zaim dia senang ikut.. No wonder Zaim bleh bercommunicate with her... Lagi pulak Bibik rajin melayan Zaim menyanyi... Tapi version Bibik lah.. Heheh kadang2 aku ikut rase nak tergelak kelakar dengar... Zaim nyanyi lagu Thomas.. Bibik nyanyi Tomas and Jerry... Ape-ape jelah bik oii...
Then 10am both of us decided to leave him at home with Bibik... Sangat berat hati... coz we never left him home alone except bile hantar ke nursery. So mase bergoodbye tu, Zaim menangis, nak ikut... Memi Abam kut... Nak Uwa.. Udi.. Udi.. (Mommy Abang nak ikut... Nak keluar naik Audi...) But Mommy and Babah still tinggalkan dia... and Bibik pujuk dia... Sedih ok... tsk tsk tsk... After 2 minutes, I call my bro to check Zaim.. Dia kate, Zaim okey je, tengah main dgn Bibik... Hah? Terus rase sedih... Huhuh cepatnye dia melupakan aku... Bie gelak je.. He said... Alah ayang ni... Same la macam kat nursery... Just ni dia with Bibik... Environment je lain... Kali ni dia kene duk rumah, instead kite hantar dia ke nursery. Bie try la comfort me.. Tak abih2 gelakkan aku...Cait! When we came back home after one hour, Zaim excited gelak besar sambut Mommy balik.. Memi.. Memi.. Then gelak berdekah-dekah terus ajak main... As if nothing happen pun tadi...
At 2pm, Mommy and Babah tinggalkan Zaim sekali lagi sebab tengok dia dah sleepy, so maybe it's good time to let him sleep with Bibik kan... Again, mase pergi tu, sedih sgt.. Macam-macam la dia buat so that we bring him along... Then again after few minutes, I check him, dia dah okay main balik... Mommy and Babah have a good time makan kat Pizza Hut... After 2 hours, we came back home, Zaim baru bangun... Rupenye dia tido 10minutes je... Tapi Bibik cakap dia nangis la asik tanye Mommy je... But big clap jugaklah untuk Bibik... Even nursery pun tak berjaya tidokan Zaim setiap hari... Dia kalo paling minimum pun perlu 30 minutes ditepuk baru nak tido.. Itu pun kene senyap sunyi... Kdg2 tu after 2 hours pun tak jugak tido2.. Bikin Mommy geram je... So for this first trial, kirenye Bibik okaylah handle Zaim... Enough for today lah... Makan minum mandi main sume okay...
Then sebab kesian pulak Zaim tak kua rumah satu hari, as usual we brought him to LRT... Apelagi kalo tak tengok choo-choo train idaman kalbu dia tu... Selalu tengok 2 je cukup dah, kali ni sampai 5 trains... One more, one more... sib baik Mommy and Babah kesian kat dia today kene tinggal ngan Bibik, so kasik chance lah dia nak tengok train banyak2 arini...
- Day 4 - 23 June 2009
- Day 5 - 24 June 2009
Tu jelah update tentang Bibik. My mom pun kate Bibik ni okay. My mom sgt cerewet okay. Sangat susah hati kalo my mom tak leh accept Bibik... Yang paling penting Zaim bleh nak main ngan dia... Kerje rumah pun bleh kate cekap. Masak pun. Tapi we still need to monitor her lah kan.. Masih awal untuk terlalu percaya kat dia.. Hopefully dia okay!
p/s: Eventho am quite happy to see their progress, tapi kan... deep down inside, I am sooo sad okay, membiarkan Zaim di handle oleh Bibik di depan mata sendiri - contoh mandi, buat susu, main and tukar diaper... So kdg2 tu mmg jeles yg amat!!! Sangat!!! Huhuhu



































After work, bie pick me up, again heading to Garden. Bought nothing for me but a floral shirt for bie. Mark and Spencer ade sale! Go grab one! This year, bie want to wear something floral for raya. He bored with stripes design i think. Taperla still macho what... As long as tak jambuuuu sudahhh... We had our dinner at Restaurant Belanga. Sape nak makan nasi dagang, nasi lemak, bubur. Bleh la try sini.







